Imposter syndrome is something I struggle with All. The. Time.
It hit me Monday, what did I actually do?
So I made a list:
- Business planning
- Consulting for a new software company in the channel
- Finished a custom conference table
- Fixed an automatic paper folder
- Printed and folder 240 direct mail pieces
And of course, that is in addition to more mundane things that are a part of the every day.
But it was looking at the list of things I did on a day I didn’t feel like I did much that helped me see: I’m not an imposted. Maybe I don’t have it all together, but I’ve got most of it.
There are many other days I feel like I didn’t get nearly enough done, or can’t point to some big thing I did. But the truth is, just doing my every day is a lot.
I’ve got eight kids, seven in the house.
I run — a lot. 15 miles is a slow week, (Before I got COVID, anything less than 30 miles was a bad week)
I own a small business where I wear three C-level hats (CEO, CFO, CMO).
And somehow, in all of that (*cough* while running*) I’ve listened to Audible for 45 minutes a day this year, on average. That doesn’t count anything read on Kindle.
Just living my life is enough to defeat imposter syndrome.
And you know what? I bet your life is the same. I’m sure we have more differences than similarities but I imagine if you took a third-party’s view on your own life, you’d find that you’re not an imposter, either.
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